It was such a quick turn after my question was asked. Like there couldn't have been enough time for a thought to precede it. There definitely wasn't any signs of overwhelm in his eyes though. Just a purposeful resolve that to make a decision like this there'd need to be consultation. It all happened so quickly. Then with their answer communicated we were ready to play.
"Let us be a little humble; let us think that the truth may not perhaps be entirely with us." - Jawaharlal Nehru
The scene I describe above happened a few weeks ago. It's been playing on my mind since because even though it might be subtle, it's definitely important. It very well could of gone unnoticed though. But to the group, and me, it made a massive difference in the process of learning by doing, with reflection, that happened next. That's the best part of using experiential learning as our vehicle of choice. We all assume the position of learner and teacher as we're exploring the possibilities, discovering potential, and acting authentically together.
"Without a sense of fairness and justice, no leader can command and retain the respect of his followers.” - Napoleon Hill
So much of what I/we notice, lights me and participants up, and becomes teachable moments within a program experience fall into this category. It's where leadership really comes to life. The subtle but really important purposeful practices that are being used to make a difference for self, others, and the world around us as individuals and groups. I am inspired constantly by the kind word, caring hand, creation of space, resilience to try again, courageous sharing, to name just a few, thoughts, words, and actions that leaders embody each and every day. Many can go unnoticed if we're not paying attention. But all are so very important.
“It is when we are under pressure that our true colours come out.” - Jill Uchiyama
Maybe it all comes back to intention. What are we looking to achieve? Is it having or executing a power over others? Or is it empowering self and others within an ongoing process of making a difference? The quote that underpins our leadership development programs immediately comes to mind, 'Leadership is action, not position' - Donald H McGannon. The Year 5 boy I described above definitely embodied leadership within that moment. I'm so grateful we were able to notice and celebrate his contribution because even though it may have been subtle, it was definitely important.
"We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light." - Mary Dunbar